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Dancing Down the Aisle

5/1/2012

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Serena and Tim's Grandma's
Kiswahili word of the week: kuku choma.  Kuku choma: roasted chicken.  One of Kisumu's specialties is their BBQ chicken- it is delicious!  Every Tuesday night, I meet with friends from the CDC at a BBQ place in Kisumu.  For $4 each, we eat as much salsa, ugali and roasted chicken we can handle.  It is delicious!

This was a strange week, filled with a lot of random events.  I am finishing up a proposal for Orphans and Vulnerable Children, visited OGRA's Ring Road Nyalenda Slum Clinic, had a beautiful African dress finished, attended another wedding, watched the rain take over life in Kisumu, and have been steadily working away on my school deliverables to complete my master's degree. 

Please click "read more" to see the rest of this week's blog.

Unfortunately, I have been spending more time sitting at my desk the last few weeks than I would like.  OGRA Foundation has me working on a concept note to help Orphans and Vulnerable Children (OVC) living in Nyando District.  Nyando has over 15,000 orphans, constituting over 15% of the district's population.  Many of these children's parents have died of AIDS, and many of the children are already infected with HIV.  These children face a number of challenges, including finding a place to live, getting access to health care and education, as well as having their rights, including basic protection and inheritance rights, honored.  Most orphans come from poor families, whose grandparents, aunts,and uncles are already stretched and can barely shelter, feed and clothe their own children, let alone add another.  

Currently, OGRA Foundation works with OVC in Ombeyi and also provides over 90 scholarships for OVC to attend secondary and tertiary schools.  We want to end the vicious cycle of poverty that most OVC end up experiencing as adults due to poor health and lack of job skill training. 

On Friday, Peter took me to the Ring Road Clinic in the Nyalenda Slums.  They have excellent programs and excellent staff.  The compound consists of a number of buildings.  The Ring Road compound began as a Church, whose congregation saw the need for OVC to receive care and education.  Victor, the man that gave me a tour of the facilities, began as a volunteer at Ring Road, and is now an employee.  He taught OVC for free, on weekdays, inside of the church.  The compound has grown exponentially.  It now contains a Level 2 health clinic, a school for OVC, a full kitchen, and the chapel, which still hosts church services every Sunday.  It is doing great work in Nyalenda; OGRA Foundation is proud to be it's sponsor.   

This week, I had the opportunity to attend another Kenyan Wedding.  My co-worker Tim, invited me to attend his aunt's wedding.  It was quite the event.  Because Tim's auntie lives in town, I was not able to see the exchange of cows, but did have the opportunity to see other farm animals over the course of the ceremony.  

Tim's family is 7th Day Adventist, and because the wedding was held on a Saturday (when 7th Day Adventist Churches hold their services), the wedding was held at a Catholic church.  Kenyans love weddings.  The grooms were handsomely dressed in grey suits with yellow buttercup vests and ties.  The bridesmaids were all dressed in beautiful yellow satin dresses with brown sashes.  The of cars were all decorated in pink and brown ribbons with balloons tied to the tires.  The brides car also had a sash of red, pink, orange and white roses laid across hood.     

The best part of the the ceremony was the church procession.  Kenyans know how to dance, and Kenyans know how to have a good time.  Although it took 1/2 hour for the wedding party to enter the church- it was worth it!  Each bridesmaid, groomsman, flower girl, ring-bearer, grandmother and grandfather danced down the aisle to traditional Luo music.  It was entertaining to learn, halfway through the services, that we had some special guests: a woman in the row behind me brought two chickens in her handbag into the church.  Later in the ceremony, after hearing some additional clucking, I learned that she was not the only person to bring chickens to a wedding.  I assume that they were gifts for the Bride and Groom.  


The wedding nuptials were beautifully orated and right out of Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice (Colin Firth 1990's version).  After the nuptials, was the entertainment.  A group of women took to the stage, and the entire congregation stood up, sang, and danced to celebrate the bride and groom's new life together.  After the song and dance, three men drug a goat down the aisle.  In my confusion over the first goat, two additional goats appeared.  I tried to ask Tim, my translator, about this ritual and could not get a straight answer.  Regardless, it was a fun, sentimental, and entertaining ceremony, with lots of goodwill and cause for celebration!

After the service, I caught a ride with one of Tim's friends, his grandmothers, and a few of his nieces, to the reception.  The ride ended up being a wild goose chase.  I never did make it to the reception, but heard it was a great party that went late into the night.  

At the wedding, I had an opportunity to wear my new African dress.  I absolutely love it!  The Sunday after the wedding, I fed my fabric addiction again, and headed to Kibuye Market.  I have decided I want two more African dresses made before I return to the U.S.  I picked up some beautiful turquoise/black/white fabric and some beautiful dark blue/black fabric.  I dropped off the fabric to my Fundi this morning and hope to have them completed sometime next week.  I will be posting pictures of them when they are complete.

I am happy to say that I have only 2 more assignments left until I complete my masters degree!  My plan is to lock myself in my apartment for 2 more weeks, and then I will be free!  After those two weeks, I have fantastic plan to travel through East Africa.  My college roommate Emily and I hope to travel through Tanzania in mid-May.  In late May, my parents will be coming to Kisumu to volunteer with OGRA Foundation, and will then go on safari to Masai Mara.  I am beginning to see the end of my time in Kenya, and am excited to return home to family and friends and driving my car down the PCH to get a giant burrito with extra guacamole. 

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OGRA Foundation Ring Road Medical Clinic
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OGRA Foundation Ring Road School for Orphans and Vulnerable Children- and their school garden
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Serena and Victor, a Ring Road Employee
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Serena and Peter, an OGRA Foundation Driver. OGRA Foundation Besties.
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Victor, in the original Ring Road schoolhouse, that also serves as a church on Sundays.
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A Ring Road schoolchild, helping make lunch in the kitchen
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The Ring Road borehole, they use a chlorine system to clean the water.
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The Bride's Ride
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A Groomsman and Bridesmaid, Dancing Down the Aisle
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Because, what is a wedding without a chicken in your purse?
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Groomsman and Bridesmaid Dancing Down the Aisle
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They know how to do it in Kenya
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The Teenagers Dancing Down the Aisle
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The FlowerGirl Dancing Down the Aisle
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The Serene Bride and Her Parents
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The Bridesmaids and Groomsmen welcoming and dancing with the Bride down the Aisle
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The Chicken, getting a little feisty during the ceremony. (I think she was objecting to the marriage.)
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The Bride and Groom exchanging rings
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The Wedding Entertainment has Arrived!
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The Entertainment Engaging the Wedding Guests
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Because, what is a wedding without a goat?
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Why have 1 goat, when you can have 3?
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The Bride and Groom leaving the Church as Husband and Wife
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Standing Outside of the Church after the Service. (Over 400 guests)
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One of Tim's Nieces.
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Another one of Tim's Nieces
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Tim and his Grandmothers
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Serena and Tim's Grandmothers
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My new African Dress, made out of Ugandan Cotton.
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My latest find at Kibuye
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Kenyans LOVE our President (Grandma Obama lives 15 minutes outside of Kisumu)
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Dress & Skirt Design
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Pencil Skirt Design
6 Comments
Kris
5/1/2012 03:07:06 am

that wedding looked like sooo much fun! it's interesting to witness different cultures celebrating universal customs. Love your blog. Allows us to see that the world doesn't revolve around just us! Now about your material...gorgeous. What was that material on the bed that was 2 pieces? It looked like a blanket or brocade. I couldn't tell. It was exquisite you have covered a lot of territory literally & figuratively can't wait to see what's next!

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Serena
5/1/2012 05:34:33 am

I'm so glad you're enjoying the blog Kris!

There are so many ways of doing things around the world- it's interesting and insightful. Traditions tells you what people think is important while giving you insight into your own culture.

Anyways, about the fabric. The two pieces of fabric on the bed are Kenyan fabric made in a local wax-dye process- so the different colors and patters are just a print. A lot of women simply tie knots and wear the fabric as a long dress tied around their waist. I've also seen them worn as a cape. In Kisumu, the fabric is typically yellow, with red, green or blue highlights, and a giant chicken in the middle of the fabric. Since I don't have the skin-tone for yellow, or chickens, I decided to go with teal and blue.

Unfortunately, in my ignorance, I purchased the lower-quality version: a cotton-polyester blend. This version won't fade, but it's thinner, rougher, doesn't last as long. I'm having my Fundi purchase the superior cotton version of the print for me, for the dress. The cotton is softer, has a higher thread count, and will last longer. The cotton/polyester blend is about $4, whereas the superior cotton one is $5.50. It's worth an extra $5.50 for me to have a dress that will last a couple of years instead of a couple of months.

My next door neighbor Amy bought some beautiful cotton fabric with a gold-print overlay a few weeks ago. She's having a fundi make an outfit for her out of the dress. I'll post a picture of the outcome for you. :)

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DESAI OGADA link
5/9/2012 04:02:08 pm

Really wished you could come back and visit us. I am Desai, we happen to have met when you visit our group Lagnet in Ahero. Lagnet is one of the group that is supported by Ogra Foundation to which you are attached to. I have to really appreciate the insights we got as an organization from you during your last visit and we hope to bond the relationship more. I really love your blogs and your philosophy in life;very inspiring!

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Serena Kelsch
5/12/2012 08:45:28 pm

Desai, It was great meeting you the other week! I wish I could spend more time with Lagnet Cric too. I love the work you are doing. Magnet theater sounds fantastic! My email is posted on this website. Let's keep in touch. Like I said, I plan on posting more free tools on here, that Lagnet Cric can use to generate funding, enhance your marketing, and strengthen your programs. Keep in touch!

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N.Kelsch
5/12/2012 06:00:41 am

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FREDAH AJOWI link
12/10/2012 08:51:16 pm

Serena you are a real typical African woman in your African Attire. The dress maker did a lot of justice on you, you are gorgeous

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